Free Live Training for Catholic Adoptive Mothers

We Followed God Into Adoption Why Does It Feel So Devastating?

Finding Interior Peace When Motherhood Feels Nothing Like You Imagined

You were sure God was leading your family into adoption.

You prayed.

You discerned.

You stepped forward in faith.

And now…

Motherhood feels nothing like you imagined.

Your home feels chaotic instead of peaceful.

You feel exhausted, confused, and even ashamed.

Some days you wonder:

Did we mishear God?

If that question has ever crossed your mind, you are not alone.

Many faithful Catholic mothers quietly carry a grief no one prepared them for — the grief of the motherhood they dreamed of, and the painful reality they are now living.

This free training is for mothers who love their children deeply but feel crushed by the reality of adoption and don’t know how to carry it anymore.

“A relationship that once felt incredibly difficult now feels hopeful and healing… Things that used to be constant battles are no longer constant battles.

I’m being more merciful toward myself in a way I wasn’t before”

Tina

ADOPTIVE MOTHER

In This Live Training, You'll Learn:

Why adoption devastation does not mean you misheard God

The hidden grief many adoptive mothers experience but feel ashamed to admit

Why chasing solutions for your child often leaves your own pain unaddressed

The difference between being a failing mother and being a mother in survival mode

How to begin rediscovering interior peace, even if your circumstances don’t immediately change

This training is especially for Catholic mothers who:

Feel overwhelmed or emotionally crushed by the reality of adoption
Secretly wonder if they ruined their lives by saying yes
Feel angry at God and ashamed to admit it
Feel disconnected from the motherhood they expected to experience
Have tried therapy with their child, parenting strategies, and advice but still feel stuck inside

If any of that resonates, this conversation may be exactly what you need.

“Thank you for feeling with me all my emotions, especially the sad and angry ones that feel so messy and ugly….for walking with me and being an instrument of Christ’s healing for me.

I’m very happy and grateful that this is the mission that God has given you — to help people like me.”

Meghan

Hi, I’m

Sam Todzia

My wife and I followed God’s call into adoption. The reality that followed nearly broke us.

I watched my wife wrestle with grief, anger toward God, and the quiet fear that we had ruined our lives by saying yes.

After 15 years of walking this road together, I felt the call to help others who find themselves facing the same hidden devastation. I took my background in Theology and was further trained and certified by the CatholicPsych Institute. Today, it is my joy to accompany people integrating Catholic anthropology and spirituality with the best of modern psychology.

My goal is to help Catholic adoptive parents who feel crushed by the reality of adoption rediscover peace and purpose.

If you feel like you're barely holding it together and no one truly understands what this journey has been like…

I want you to know:

You are not crazy.

You are not alone.

And this devastation does not mean you failed God
or are failing your family.

Join me for this live training on Monday, 17th August 8PM ET and begin seeing your story in a completely new light.

Live teaching + Q&A

60 minutes

Completely free

Live teaching + Q&A | 60 minutes | Completely free